31 days of gratitude

Dec. 2nd, 2025 01:56 am
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So to combat the general feelings that we're rapidly heading into he'll in a handbasket I'm attempting December's 31 days of gratitude challenge.

Pretty simple rules:

Commit to writing in a gratitude journal daily for 31 days in December. Just 5-10 minutes each day listing what you're thankful for can transform your mindset, improve relationships, and boost happiness. No special skills needed — just a notebook and willingness to appreciate life.

* Write Daily: spend 5-10 minutes writing 3-5 things you're grateful for each day.

* Be Specific: instead of "I'm grateful for my family," write "I'm grateful for my sister's encouraging text today."

* Feel It: don't just list items - truly connect with the feeling of gratitude as you write.

* Mix It Up: include big things and small moments, people, experiences, and personal qualities.

* By hand: write it in a dedicated journal or on a piece of paper by hand. The physical act of writing is important here.

culture consumed (November, 2025)

Dec. 1st, 2025 07:02 pm
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books
  • [Nov 4 Rainbow Book Group] Thunder Song: Essays by Sasha taqwšeblu LaPointe (2025) -- Coast Salish author from the Nooksack and Upper Skagit Indian tribes -- she gets really into riot grrl and punk but also realizes just how white it is, and figures out how to integrate her Indigenous identity

  • [Nov 12 climate change book club] Generation Dread: Finding Purpose in an Age of Climate Anxiety by Britt Wray (2022) -- I know it was largely because I was tired, but I definitely wished this book was shorter

  • [Nov 19 DEI book club -- November is Native American Indian/Alaska Native Heritage Month] Never Whistle at Night: An Indigenous Dark Fiction Anthology ed. Shane Hawk and Theodore C. Van Alst Jr. (2023)

  • Red Paint: The Ancestral Autobiography of a Coast Salish Punk by Sasha taqwšəblu LaPointe (2022) -- near the end of Thunder Song (p.194) she says, talking about her relationship with her ex-husband, "It ended. We both played our roles in that. I wrote a book about it."  Many of us at book club were interested to learn more about the life that isn't talked about in Thunder Song -- and wondered if it might be a more linear narrative (it's not particularly).

  • [Dec 2 Rainbow Book Group] Last Night at the Telegraph Club by Malinda Lo (2021) -- baby lesbian in 1950s SF Chinatown

  • [Dec 10 climate change book club] Perilous Times by Thomas D. Lee (2023, fiction) -- this read really quickly (good because it's almost 500 pages!), which was nice after having struggled a lot with reading recently. I had forgotten that [personal profile] skygiants' reiew talked about it being a Ride that was not well-served by the Serious Business cover art it got.

  • Summer at Squee by Andrea Wang (2024) -- middle-grade novel about a Chinese American kid at Chinese cultural summer camp -- gets into issues of different kinds of Chinese American identity/experience -- seen on the shelves of a local independent bookstore

  • The School for Invisible Boys by Shaun David Hutchinson (2024) -- another middle-grade novel (seen on the Most Anticipated Queer Middle Grade: January-June 2024)
    & its sequel: A Home for Unusual Monsters (2025)

  • Dragon Bike: Fantastical Stories of Bicycling, Feminism, & Dragons ed. Elly Blue (2020) -- volume 6 of the "Bikes in Space" series -- trying for light reading when I was struggling to read, and also trying to read down some of the stuff on my shelves

  • [bff book club] Saving Our Own Lives: A Liberatory Practice of Harm Reduction by Shira Hassan (with Foreword by adrienne maree brown & Introduction by Tourmaline) (2022) -- finally, we finished! Our near-term plan is to pivot to lectionary preview Bible study now that bff is preaching regularly.

  • The Transition by Logan-Ashley Kisner (2025) -- trans-masc werewolf YA horror

    I first heard about this from Book Riot, Our Queerest Shelves, "12 New Queer Books Out in September 2025" (Sep 2, 2025) and was intrigued by a GR review that said: "We've all heard about werewolf analogies when in comes to transition and largely that idea has been reclaimed by the trans community as empowering, but Kisner takes it in a different direction, instead emphasizing how becoming a werewolf goes against bodily autonomy in the way that transition doesn't."

theater
  • [CST] Summer, 1976 with my mom (who graduated high school in 1977) Abby M from church (my mom was sick) [online program]
    1976. An Ohio college town. The second wave of feminism is cresting. Two very different women are thrown together through a faculty babysitting co-op and an unlikely friendship forms between Diana, a fiercely iconoclastic artist, and Alice, a free-spirited yet naive young housewife. Summer, 1976 is written by Pulitzer winner David Auburn (Proof) with Paula Plum, recipient of the Elliot Norton Prize for Sustained Excellence making her CST directorial debut. She is joined by Elliot Norton Award-winning actors Lee Mikeska Gardner and Laura Latreille as Diana and Alice. In the course of 90 minutes, we are brought directly into their memories and the small moments that change the course of their lives in this funny and poignant play The New York Times praises as “sharply observant…subtly, insistently feminist.”
    This play was sadder than I had expected.  When I went back to the blurb afterward, to see what it had actually said versus my expectations, I realized it says almost nothing about the actual play -- about half of the blurb is just the credentials of the people involved.

    Googling, some sites use the phrase "motherhood, ambition and intimacy," which feels like a pretty accurate summary of the themes of the play. In Googling I also came across a WBUR review of this production.

    When the season was initially announced, Abby noticed that almost none of the plays were written by women (Silent Sky was the only one of the five). I didn't get "written by a man" vibes watching this play, but it is interesting that the Artistic Director writes in the program for this play (talking about the plays they selected for this season), "We doubled down on our mission - the feminine perspective and science wrapped within our social justice values," when only one play is actually written by a female perspective. (Yes, obviously women shouldn't be the only people writing women. And also.)
***

Currently Reading:

Nothing, apparently.

Reading Next:

It's hard for me to tell what I'll want to read next.  I've been having bouts of wanting light reading and going through my TBR and requesting a bunch of books from the library and then when they arrive finding I'm not interested in a bunch of them atm. And I don't really like reading ebooks, so I have a ton of stuff I've bought in bundles on itch that idk when I'll ever read. (Not helped by the fact that browsing on itch I have to click into a specific title to get any details on it, which does not help my "browse for something I'm in the mood for," especially when I'm tired.)

Oh, I was recently reminded of Betsy Bird's "31 Days, 31 Lists" every December, so I'll be ILLing some amount of kidlit.

I've already read my December book club books, so I guess I can list my January book club books:

[Jan 6 MPL Rainbow book group] My Brother's Husband v.1 by Gengoroh Tagame; translated from the Japanese by Anne Ishii -- I will maybe also read Volume 2, depending on how I feel about Volume 1.

[Jan 11 feminist sff book club] She Who Became the Sun by Shelly Parker-Chan (2021) -- which is long (and the first book in a duology), so we decided to push that meeting out into January
I'm also planning to read the 2023 sequel, He Who Drowned the World, so am planning to get an early start on these long books. Though, I mean, I'm traveling for Christmas, so I may honestly just leave this as my plane ride books.

[Jan 25? OOYL book club] A Sharp Endless Need by Mac (Marisa) Crane (2025)

In an OOYL Discord chat, Frankie said:
I love this discussion tho bc we have talked about how as sports fans, it’s hard to enjoy a sports romance without sports. But then when is it too much sport? Where is the balance?
Has anyone in here read Mac Crane’s A Sharp Endless Need? What did you think of that balance? Maybe we can do that another time—a sports romance that literally opens in scene during a game
I feel a little bit like a faker since I am not in fact a sports fan, but here I am.

Work DEI book club is taking December off. We went ahead with Muslim American Heritage Month for January.  We haven't picked a boot (or a date) yet, but below is the list of books under consideration; O suggested the first book on this list, and A.D. suggested the other 5:

quillpunk's Holiday Wishlist 2026

Dec. 1st, 2025 09:28 pm
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Okay! Holiday wishlist time! (Somehow, it is already that time of the year again, OTL.)

Fandom Tree gifts. Find my Fandom Tree here. I'm asking for fics, icons, art and podfic. The fandoms I've requested are f:9-1-1/9-1-1 lone star, f:abo desire, f:all for the game, f:black adam, f:collector movies, f:dc comics, f:devil wears prada, f:dune, f:even if i fall into a ghost story i st, f:eye candy, f:meet you at the blossom, f:outlast, f:strangers from hell, f:the attic. Honestly, any of my requested mediums would be so fun! :D

Comments on my fics. I write a lot of rare pairs/small fandoms, so the comments are usually pretty slim pickings. Any and all comments would be deeply appreciated! <3

Dreamwidth Points/Paid Account Time. My Paid Account expires at the end of January, and not gonna lie, I've been over budget pretty much every month this year. I love my icons (some of which are fabulous gifts that I adore) and don't want to lose access to them. So even the minimum amount of points/months would be absolutely amazing!

Bookbinding material. As you might be aware, I've been getting into bookbinding this year! (I'm actually writing this post while taking a break from working on my fanbinding of The Gold-gilt Path by khthonicEcho, which is my first fanbind that isn't a simple single-signature pamphlet.)

Problem, there is so much stuff to acquire.

I've gotten the bare basics (this is part of the reason I broke my budget so much, ngl), but things like cool endpapers, pretty paper for the exterior of the book, and of course, bookbinding cloth, are all on the wishlist. (Fair warning, as I'm very new to this, I can't attest to the quality of any of them, or that it is precisely what I need. Especially with the papers, I'm not certain the ideal thickness for the different uses. So I'm just kind of muddling ahead.)

I've been having so much fun with bookbinding. I have a whole spreadsheet of fics I wanna bind! So you can find my bookbinding material wishlist here on Throne. Material for bookbinding would be so delightful! (Throne is basically an amazon wishlist, but more private so it doesn't give away my address. I'm very Internet Stranger Danger paranoid, which is the big reason I'm not posting this to [community profile] holiday_wishes.)

Books. Obviously, there's books on the wishlist. This list is also on Throne! I think if there weren't any books on it, I'd be dead. Or in a coma. I'm always going to want books 😅

There are a couple of different books on the list, but they're all gay. They're also all books that are on my 'to buy' list (which is going to take forever to make my way down, lmao), so I'm very interested in all of them. I've read all the authors before, so I'm reasonably certain I'll enjoy them :D

The other reason my budget took a nosedive this year is because, when Amazon messed with the ability to download ebooks, I made the decision to no longer buy anything on kindle. However, I read a lot of indie MM romances from authors that only publish on Amazon. (KU isn't available in my region.)

I get why they do this, but it does mean I'm forced to shell out potentially significantly more money for a paperback, as opposed to if I just got the ebook. I don't necessarily regret this, though I did also have to buy a new bookcase this year. ...That's probably not related.

Anyway! So books. I love books, I love gay books, and I have a deeply profound urge to Own All the Self-Indulgent Gay Romance Books(TM). That's probably not very realistic unless I suddenly become immortal, but one can always hope! So anything from my book wishlist would be so lovely. <333

And... I think that might be everything. Is that everything? DW Points, [community profile] fandomtrees, books, bookbinding material, comments...

Oooooh, okay, I thought of one more! (It's low-key funny I almost forgot this, it's been slipping my mind so much, lmao.)

Buy/gift my book to somebody. You might be aware that I wrote and published a book this summer. It's only available as an ebook on Amazon/in KU, which is like the exact same thing I just complained about. In my defense... I didn't have the energy to publish it wide, so I just stuck it in KDP Select, and now that it's there I don't have the energy to mess with that. I'll try to put up a paperback at some point --- I've honestly just been forgetting it, lol. (Also in my defense, I've just been forgetting a lot of things this year.)

And that really is everything! I'm pretty sure, anyway. I'm gonna return to my bookbinding now. I'm trying to cut a cardboard for the cover, and oh boy, it is so hard with just a cutting knife. But I shall prevail!

Happy Holidays, everyone! <3

Strange Pictures, by Uketsu

Dec. 1st, 2025 01:09 pm
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Another mystery with light horror/urban legend elements and a heavy use of images by the mysterious and pseudonymous Uketsu. If you like creepypasta, you will like this.

An abandoned blog with sketches of a woman's future child may reveal a horrifying secret. A child's drawings of his apartment building worry his teacher. A mountaintop murder has a clue in a sketch by the murder victim. How do the images reveal the solutions? Are these three weird stories related?

I enjoyed this very much. It's exactly as fun and bonkers as the first Uketsu book I read, Strange Houses, but feels more confident and assured. It also reads more like a normal novel, with actual scenes rather than solely relying on interviews and exposition.

I'm excited to read his next two books (forthcoming in English) Strange Buildings (originally published in Japanese as Strange Houses 2, which the translator says is more dark/disturbing than the first two) and Strange Maps, which the translator says is more of a classic mystery.

Content notes: Child abuse, animal in danger, brief but graphic violence.

Spoilers!

Read more... )

Write every day: Day 1

Dec. 1st, 2025 09:53 pm
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In December I am hosting Write Every Day. Welcome, everyone! More about this if you're new to WED )

Do you have any goals for the month? Mine is to finally finish my current longfic. On Day 1, I posted the next-to-last chapter of it. All done except for the epilogue! \o/ Did you do any writing today?

Bonus farming news: if ducks eat acorns, the yolks of their eggs will be greenish! I can't taste any difference, though.

Check-In Post - Dec 1st 2025

Dec. 1st, 2025 07:05 pm
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Hello to all members, passers-by, curious onlookers, and shy lurkers, and welcome to our regular daily check-in post. Just leave a comment below to let us know how your current projects are progressing, or even if they're not.

Checking in is NOT compulsory, check in as often or as seldom as you want, this community isn't about pressure it's about encouragement, motivation, and support. Crafting is meant to be fun, and what's more fun than sharing achievements and seeing the wonderful things everyone else is creating?

There may also occasionally be questions, but again you don't have to answer them, they're just a way of getting to know each other a bit better.


This Week's Question: Does anyone have any plans for making Christmas gifts or cards?


If anyone has any questions of their own about the community, or suggestions for tags, questions to be asked on the check-in posts, or if anyone is interested in playing check-in host for a week here on the community, which would entail putting up the daily check-in posts and responding to comments, go to the Questions & Suggestions post and leave a comment.

I now declare this Check-In OPEN!



May Renault, did you lie to me?

Dec. 1st, 2025 06:45 pm
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Not being an Alexander the Great fangirl, I had never read the primary sources (which were written centuries later, because all the contemporary sources on AtG were lost) on everyone's favourite Macedon, but now I got around to reading at least Plutarch. And you know, if there is ONE thing not just the late Ms Renault and her trilogy but the entire internet led me to believe, it's that Hephaistion was Alexander's One True Love And Soulmate; even absolute homophobes concede him as the friend of friends, the Patroclos to Alexander's Achilles, etc. So imagine my suprrise when I stumbled upon these few paragraphs by good old Plutarch:

Moreover, when he saw that among his chiefest friends Hephaestion approved his course and joined him in changing his mode of life, while Craterus clung fast to his native ways, he employed the former in his business with the Barbarians, the latter in that with the Greeks and Macedonians. And in general he showed most affection for Hephaestion, but most esteem for Craterus, thinking, and constantly saying, that Hephaestion was a friend of Alexander, but Craterus a friend of the king.

For this reason, too, the men cherished a secret grudge against one another and often came into open collision. And once, on the Indian expedition, they actually drew their swords and closed with one another, and as the friends of each were coming to his aid, Alexander rode up and abused Hephaestion publicly, calling him a fool and a madman for not knowing that without Alexander's favour he was nothing; and in private he also sharply reproved Craterus.

Then he brought them together and reconciled them, taking an oath by Ammon and the rest of the gods that he loved them most of all men; but that if he heard of their quarrelling again, he would kill them both, or at least the one who began the quarrel. Wherefore after this they neither did nor said anything to harm one another, not even in jest.



Craterus? CRATERUS? And he "abused Hephaistion publicly?" Hephaistion - who in fiction shows up eternally chill and calming emo Alex down - was jealous of some guy who wasn't at least Bagoas? Truly, this is not what I expected.

To be fair: Plutarch also later describes the complete breakdown and momentous grief for Hephaistion when Heph dies. (Oh, and he does mention Bagoas as well, to wit: We are told, too, that he was once viewing some contests in singing and dancing, being well heated with wine, and that his favourite, Bagoas, won the prize for song and dance, and then, all in his festal array, passed through the theatre and took his seat by Alexander's side; at sight of which the Macedonians clapped their hands and loudly bade the king kiss the victor, until at last he threw his arms about him and kissed him tenderly. ) Still. I feel let down by the OTPlers.

Not really surprised, though. This kind of thing happens constantly in Frederician fandom.

To celebrate the latest example of research making everyone more complicated, I'm linking this gem, which includes both Alex and Fritz:

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Dec. 1st, 2025 04:09 pm
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well, i defaulted on [community profile] fffx. i've just been unsure about my assignment from the very beginning. like i got it and was like, oops. maybe i should have actually checked the requests in the fandom before i offered it. orz. i totally missed the whole swap thing too, my brain was just full of fog. and with the check-in, yeah. i defualted. i feel bad about it, but it is what it is. at least i did manage to turn in something for [community profile] ficinabox.

also, i'm working on putting together my holiday wishlist. i still don't have the courage to post it on [community profile] holiday_wishes, so i guess this is a tradition at this point. it'll be much the same as usual, but also! i'm planning to add some bookbinding stuff to my throne wishlist (it's basically just an amazon wishlist, but more private so it doesn't give away my address). i've been getting really into it: i just finished a notebook in my bookbinding workshop class (separate post coming about that at... some point. orz.) and i definitely want to keep going with this. i'm gonna bind so many fanfics, just watch me.

but alas, i've also spent like 400 bucks on bookbinding tools and such this year (tbf, like a third of that was the laser printer) and i don't think i can afford to keep throwing so much money at it. but the pretty cloth...... temptation, i tell you. so much temptation.

anyway, more proper posts about the aforementioned hopefully coming soon(ish) <3

Monthly General Chat - December 2025

Dec. 1st, 2025 08:25 pm
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General chat is for anything you want to talk about, k-pop related or not. These will go up at the beginning of every month, so feel free to check back in or comment at any point throughout the month. The post is stickied to the top of the comm along with the admin post.

Optional discussion question: what's the last thing you ate/drank?

New Music Monday - 1 December 2025

Dec. 1st, 2025 08:22 pm
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The regular weekly post for us to talk about any and all of our thoughts about the week's new releases.

Verivery - Red (Beggin')
Taeyeon - Panorama
fromis_9 - 하얀 그리움
Alpha Drive One - Formula (pre-debut)
Chuei Li Yu - Sweet Dream
Seo Eunkwang
Yim Siwan - The Reason
The Boyz - Still Love You
Lunedi - Face Myself

New MVs are also added to an ongoing youtube playlist.

Last week's MVs: 24 November

Feel free to add new comments in the replies for songs/MVs we missed.

[ Rec Something Wednesday | WIP Wednesday | Monthly General Chat | Comment Fest ]

Long weekend reading

Nov. 30th, 2025 11:07 pm
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Read The Sequel by Jean Hanff Korelitz, direct sequel to bonkers publishing-industry thriller The Plot and pretty much impossible to describe without spoilers for both books. ) Like the first one, this was entertainingly, compulsively readable in a no thoughts, head empty kind of way. Convoluted thriller aside, it's a send-up of the publishing industry and its trappings (book tours, author interviews, etc.) and cheekily meta/self-referential: early on, one character comments that sequels are never as good as the original, are they?; I didn't catch it until the note at the end explaining the joke, but all of the chapter titles are the titles of sequels to popular novels.

Finished The Tatami Galaxy by Tomihiko Morimi, which is not so much a puzzle-box narrative as the literary version of one of those comics where the characters reach between panels to interact with objects or whatever. (Obviously, better versions of the concept exist, but the first one that comes to mind was "luk a hat".) Across four different timelines, a disaffected Japanese college student makes different choices about his social life, but even as he always ends up bemoaning that surely the grass would've been greener if he'd made different choices, some things remain constant. ... )

Have started two memoirs from two women who had very different life experiences in the mid(-ish) 20th century: In True Face: A Woman's Life in the CIA, Unmasked by Jonna Mendez, a memoir of her Cold War-era career with the CIA, rising through the ranks from "contract wife" ("the agency had always counted on the accompanying spouse {of a CIA officer posted abroad} ... to fill low-level positions overseas on a contract basis") to Chief of Disguise; and I Leap Over the Wall by Monica Baldwin, a 1949 memoir by a former nun who entered the cloister in 1914 and left it in 1941, and therefore ends up reading like the memoirs of a time traveler. (The latter was originally recced by [personal profile] oursin, after I'd posted about more recent ex-nun memoir Cloistered, but [personal profile] osprey_archer beat me to actually reading it.)
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In tonight's game, the rest under a cut for those who don't care. )

And that's where we left off.

Daily Happiness

Nov. 30th, 2025 05:10 pm
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1. I keep seeing posts from Sidecar Donuts on my instagram feed and have been meaning to try them out, so this morning I walked over there for breakfast. It's about 1.3 miles and my usual morning walk is 1.5, so even if I went straight there and back it's almost double, so not doable on a work day (which is just as well), but nice for an extra long weekend walk. I actually went a few blocks out of my way, too, to make it more like four miles total.



I was planning on just getting one donut and a drink, but couldn't resist a second one. This is a banana bread latte, Apple Pan apple pie donut, and huckleberry donut. I ate the apple one there and brought the huckleberry one home for tomorrow, but I did have a taste of it already because they had samples out. Both were super tasty. The latte was just okay. I opted for no walnut topping but it still had a stronger walnut flavor than I would prefer.

2. I am bummed to go back to work tomorrow, but I did have a very nice long weekend!

3. Ollie hopped up on this shelf before I noticed! D: Thankfully I was able to extract him before he did any damage (though of course I had to take several photos first lol).

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