UGH, BOOBS!
Sep. 17th, 2010 05:14 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
remulaJust a little venting because this has come up recently, as it usually does...
So the thing is, I have big boobs. And, of course, this comes up in conversations sometimes and I complain about this sometimes because they're just there and it's not like something unnoticeable, right? Anyway, usually after I complain about having big boobs to my girl friends, there always, ALWAYS, comments along the line of "I'm sure most girls would love to have that problem" or "Well, at least guys like them" as if these things are suppose to make me feel better or something! And me, of course I'm way too nice to be all pissy back to them (because if I'm complaining about my boobs, I'm obviously talking to my close friends), but seriously, WTF! To the first thing, yeah, maybe some girls want big boobs, but actually having them isn't all that awesome! THEY'RE HEAVY! THEY GET IN THE WAY! THEY MAKE YOU LOOK FAT! And the second response, umm, hello, THAT IS NOT ANY CONSOLATION! Seriously, I don't want guys staring at my boobs, okay?! There is nothing awesome about that what-so-ever! >O
Anyway, besides how much those comments suck, there's also the fact that I have big boobs but a small frame! NOT MANY STORES SELL BRAS FOR LARGE CUP/SMALL FRAME PEOPLE! Seriously, this probably pisses me off the most because WTF?! I guess people/stores/whatever think that the only large cup/small frame people in the world get it from plastic surgery, but THIS BODY TYPE EXISTS NATURALLY, OKAY?! And it just annoys me when I can't just go bra shopping like everyone else at Victoria's Secret or whatever because they don't carry my size! -_- (BTW, never get fitted at VS because THEY KNOW NOTHING about bra fittings!)
Another thing that annoys me about having big boobs is that it's SUPER HARD TO GO SHOPPING! I have such a hard time finding something my size because anything that fits by frame is WAY TOO SMALL in the boob area and anything that fits my boobs is WAY TOO BIG on my body. LIFE, WHY SO HARD?! And don't get me started on dresses -- dress shopping is the worst! Because nothing is my size! Like, there are so many cute things, but I just have to breeze right by because 90% of them would never fit my boobs! And anything that fits my boobs will be a bazillion sizes too big and make me look fat! >O
Pretty much life just sucks if you have big boobs and a small frame because I have yet to find a place that caters to this body type! The only place that where I can even find my bra size is at Intimacy (and there aren't that many stores) and then of course, there's Bare Necessities and Fig Leaves online, but is it too much to ask that I'd rather shop in a store where I can try on the bras? x_x
Anyway, if you've actually read through all my rant-y ramblings, then you're probably just wondering what my bra size is, lol. I think I posted it in a meme a few weeks ago or something, but yeah, I'm a 32F. *cries*
(So yeah, if you actually know a store with clothing for big boobs/small frame people, please be telling me RIGHT NOW! Because it is my hope that one day, I will be able to buy clothes that fit and don't make me look ridiculous!)
So the thing is, I have big boobs. And, of course, this comes up in conversations sometimes and I complain about this sometimes because they're just there and it's not like something unnoticeable, right? Anyway, usually after I complain about having big boobs to my girl friends, there always, ALWAYS, comments along the line of "I'm sure most girls would love to have that problem" or "Well, at least guys like them" as if these things are suppose to make me feel better or something! And me, of course I'm way too nice to be all pissy back to them (because if I'm complaining about my boobs, I'm obviously talking to my close friends), but seriously, WTF! To the first thing, yeah, maybe some girls want big boobs, but actually having them isn't all that awesome! THEY'RE HEAVY! THEY GET IN THE WAY! THEY MAKE YOU LOOK FAT! And the second response, umm, hello, THAT IS NOT ANY CONSOLATION! Seriously, I don't want guys staring at my boobs, okay?! There is nothing awesome about that what-so-ever! >O
Anyway, besides how much those comments suck, there's also the fact that I have big boobs but a small frame! NOT MANY STORES SELL BRAS FOR LARGE CUP/SMALL FRAME PEOPLE! Seriously, this probably pisses me off the most because WTF?! I guess people/stores/whatever think that the only large cup/small frame people in the world get it from plastic surgery, but THIS BODY TYPE EXISTS NATURALLY, OKAY?! And it just annoys me when I can't just go bra shopping like everyone else at Victoria's Secret or whatever because they don't carry my size! -_- (BTW, never get fitted at VS because THEY KNOW NOTHING about bra fittings!)
Another thing that annoys me about having big boobs is that it's SUPER HARD TO GO SHOPPING! I have such a hard time finding something my size because anything that fits by frame is WAY TOO SMALL in the boob area and anything that fits my boobs is WAY TOO BIG on my body. LIFE, WHY SO HARD?! And don't get me started on dresses -- dress shopping is the worst! Because nothing is my size! Like, there are so many cute things, but I just have to breeze right by because 90% of them would never fit my boobs! And anything that fits my boobs will be a bazillion sizes too big and make me look fat! >O
Pretty much life just sucks if you have big boobs and a small frame because I have yet to find a place that caters to this body type! The only place that where I can even find my bra size is at Intimacy (and there aren't that many stores) and then of course, there's Bare Necessities and Fig Leaves online, but is it too much to ask that I'd rather shop in a store where I can try on the bras? x_x
Anyway, if you've actually read through all my rant-y ramblings, then you're probably just wondering what my bra size is, lol. I think I posted it in a meme a few weeks ago or something, but yeah, I'm a 32F. *cries*
(So yeah, if you actually know a store with clothing for big boobs/small frame people, please be telling me RIGHT NOW! Because it is my hope that one day, I will be able to buy clothes that fit and don't make me look ridiculous!)
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Date: 2010-09-18 09:25 pm (UTC)Buying bras online is so hard because you're always running the risk of it not actually fitting since the fit isn't consistent between all bras. And then there's the hassle of returning and having to pay for return shipping and yeah, so annoying! -_-
I was looking at bras online the other day and like half of them in my size were nursing bras. x_x (Oh gosh, I would probably have the hardest time finding bras if I was in an Asian country! I've only known, like, two other Asian girls who have really big boobs, LOL.)